is self discovery possible in a relationship?
For the person on the unfovaroble side of an imbalanced relationship, self discovery is an uphill task.
A balanced relationship where partners share love, attention and support equally, self discovery is made easy
As a victim of a lopsided toxic relationship, finding the time, space and energy to focus on the task of finding oneself is always going to be extremely difficult. A victim of a loveless relationship could only find their authentic self by reason of accidental awakening.
But for someone in a great relationship where good love flows, the process of self discovery is rarely accidental. It's often a conscious effort, borne out of a genuine support by one for the personal dreams and growth of another.
Whether your relationship supports your self discovery efforts or not, it's worth it, because the benefits are many.
So, make the commitment to understand the real you and your real worth. Because after you've discovered and accepted your real you, you would stop wasting time and resources in futile attempts to be like someone else. And you would also stop living your life the way that makes you unhappy but makes someone who doesn't care about you happy.
Understanding your real values opens the door to the discovery of your true talent. It is also the real driver of self motivation, which is the only form of consistent motivation that no one else can give to you.
This self knowledge and acceptance of real talent and self motivation make it easy to reach any lofty height you set for yourself.
The awareness of this possibility waters the ground for a life of happiness and inner peace.
Yes, happiness and inner peace are found where self doubt and inner critic are replaced by self confidence and inner coach
The consistent feeling of happiness within, found upon acquiring self knowledge would pervade all aspects of your life including your relationships.
Self discovery would make it easy for you to be honest with yourself and with others in any relationship you find worthy of your trust and commitment. Then you would also come to understand that nothing that runs contrary to your real values is worth keeping, including toxic relationships
